Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Wood Lane - Wood County Board of Developmental Disabilities: A local family's willingness to share their "Exper...
Wood Lane - Wood County Board of Developmental Disabilities: A local family's willingness to share their "Exper...: "One of the blogs we follow is Cerebralpalsyfamily.blogspot.com. The Hyndman family posts information, resources/links, and personal reflect..."
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
A local family's willingness to share their "Experiences, feelings - good AND bad"
One of the blogs we follow is Cerebralpalsyfamily.blogspot.com. The Hyndman family posts information, resources/links, and personal reflections about the day to day "happenings" of their family.
Amy (mom and author of the blog) gave us permission to post this entry.
The family's blog is awesome (and the Hyndman family is awesome too!). We encourage you to add the family's blog to your list of blogs you follow.
Here is Amy's entry that we want to share with you-
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After my blog post on October 30th, October 2010 Update, where I talked about our feelings lately re: Nick's disability and how these hit us out of the blue after all this time, I received some wonderful, supportive e-mails. Thank you!
I started this blog for several reasons. One reason was to write about our family, our experiences, and hopefully find some people out there who can relate and also maybe we could help someone else to feel they are not alone if they are experiencing similar feelings and things. So, of course, part of that is my writing about our feelings, good and bad, which is not something I am good at talking about with others, "venting" when needed, basically, whatever I feel I want to write about and share.
I find it interesting that some family and friends stop coming around when you share or show this kind of feeling, emotion, venting, instead of being supportive. It happened to us when Nick was little. We had several friends that just stopped coming around and as I've blogged about, we've made some great new friends in our journey. I was also told that I made some family members uncomfortable (exact words) because of the emotions I showed or things I said, in my grief. That was a big lesson for me and I learned back then to put on a smile and just say, "everything is great" to certain people because most people either don't want to hear the truth or don't care, but it clearly makes people uncomfortable. So, we have always been and are careful about who we share ourselves with. When you make yourself vulnerable to others, they can use it to hurt you, and they often do. There are a rare few we've learned we can talk to honestly about how we're feeling, etc. And, luckily for Greg and I, we talk to each other!:) SO, it was difficult for me to decide to "vent" and share my anger, envy, grief, sadness, all of those feelings that are a normal part of the grief process for someone with a child with a disability or health care issue. I have become ashamed to share these things over the years because I have learned, it MAKES PEOPLE UNCOMFORTABLE. But, I decided to do it because I just know we are not the only ones who have these feelings and I thought if we could help one other person/family, it would be worth it. It's not like we feel this way 24/7, and the truth is, we are too busy living life to even feel anything about Nick's disability hardly ever! We also DO try to be optimistic, we ARE in fact, and are positive most of the time. So, it's interesting to me that people have the reactions they do when you occasionally share or are going through a tough time. Some people stop calling or contacting you. Some tell you that you shouldn't be putting your own situation on everyone else. I could go on and on about the reactions we've gotten in the past and from this post in October. I've said before, our feelings are NOT about anyone we know, they are about US. But, we do have a right to our feelings and they are normal. I'm sorry if our grief makes people uncomfortable, but at the same time, why should I be sorry? Maybe people need to be aware of and more sensitive to others experiences and feelings, and be ok with it.
We've also found that finding a place to share with other parents and families is helpful, whether that be in person, online. We like Exceptional Family TV on Facebook and their actual website as one resource.
I got a post from a Dad who said he could relate to what I posted about on October 30th and gave me some good advice. He said to acknowledge it, feel it, go through it, and move on. That is what we do and it is good advice. It was nice knowing we reached this person who lives across the US and has the same experiences. That was one of our goals.
I will continue to blog about our family, experiences, feelings, good AND bad, in an honest and truthful way. I'm doing this for us and hopefully for others too. No regrets at all. I just think people should ask themselves WHY someone else's grief, feelings, tragedies, make them uncomfortable.
Blessings:)
Amy
THANK YOU AMY!
Friday, October 22, 2010
"Great Parents Are On the Floor"
I want to share something I received from my son's school district. Each week, the school publishes a weekly e-newsletter. It arrives each Friday with updates on various events, special recognitions, reminders, etc.
The newsletter also includes a message from our Superintendent, Dr. Miller. At first, I was puzzled. I didn't quite "get it." Why was he talking about an expedition to Africa to capture cheetahs and deliver to a zoo in the U.S?
I read the entire "imaginary" story and "got it." It's a reminder of what we can do to be strive to be great parents. Our job is to play!
Thank you, Dr. Miller!
Click on this link to read Dr. Miller's message:
https://docs.google.com/document/edit?id=1ySyT0YCaAx3vxTuFacgG_lUSo_FwMDIDqJK5qcHWmI8&hl=en&authkey=CMS5hEk
The newsletter also includes a message from our Superintendent, Dr. Miller. At first, I was puzzled. I didn't quite "get it." Why was he talking about an expedition to Africa to capture cheetahs and deliver to a zoo in the U.S?
I read the entire "imaginary" story and "got it." It's a reminder of what we can do to be strive to be great parents. Our job is to play!
Thank you, Dr. Miller!
Click on this link to read Dr. Miller's message:
https://docs.google.com/document/edit?id=1ySyT0YCaAx3vxTuFacgG_lUSo_FwMDIDqJK5qcHWmI8&hl=en&authkey=CMS5hEk
Monday, October 18, 2010
New Home to offer families unique respite care
The existing home, while nice, is not fully accessible to some individuals who have mobility difficulties. Thanks to the support of our Board, a fully accessible home is no longer a dream. We are grateful to Board members commitment to families to provide this much utilized service!
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Meet Rosa - The 7 year-old Self Advocate Making Big Changes!
A seven year old girl and her mother will be creating allot of paperwork for our federal government soon. But this paper work is really important!
Rosa Marcellino and her mother Nina changed the way the federal government will use its words to address a person with an intellectual disability. That change will help over 2.5 million (yes million!) people in the United States! According to the White House press release on October 5, President Obama passed "S. 27981, the Rosa's Law, which changes reference in many Federal statutes that currently refer to 'mental retardation' to refer, instead to intellectual disability.'" http://www.whitehouse.gov/the-press-office/2010/10/05/statement-press-secretary-10510
Wow! The Power of One! Rosa's brother, Nick is quoted in the news story below stating that "some say we shouldn't worry about the words, just the way we treat people, but when you think about it, what you call people is how you treat them."
Powerful words - and it was the power of one, and another, and another to make the change!
Here's the original story about Rosa's efforts -
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Saturday, January 31, 2009
Rosa Marcellino and her mother Nina changed the way the federal government will use its words to address a person with an intellectual disability. That change will help over 2.5 million (yes million!) people in the United States! According to the White House press release on October 5, President Obama passed "S. 27981, the Rosa's Law, which changes reference in many Federal statutes that currently refer to 'mental retardation' to refer, instead to intellectual disability.'" http://www.whitehouse.gov/the-press-office/2010/10/05/statement-press-secretary-10510
Wow! The Power of One! Rosa's brother, Nick is quoted in the news story below stating that "some say we shouldn't worry about the words, just the way we treat people, but when you think about it, what you call people is how you treat them."
Powerful words - and it was the power of one, and another, and another to make the change!
Here's the original story about Rosa's efforts -
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Saturday, January 31, 2009
'Rosa's Law' Legislation Receives First Hearing
Youngster with Down Syndrome prompts new bill and new terminology
By MITCHELLE STEPHENSON For the Capital
Published January 29, 2009
The first step in getting a bill turned into law in the Maryland General Assembly is to have it heard in committee.
On Tuesday, with a gentle snow falling outside the House Health and Government Operations Committee meeting room, HB-20, also known as "Rosa's Law," got its first hearing. The law would mandate that the current terminology, "mentally retarded," be changed to "intellectually disabled" on state health and education paperwork.
Rosa Marcellino, 7, of Edgewater is the Rosa of Rosa's Law. She was born with Down syndrome. When her mother Nina Marcellino went to Central Elementary School to enroll Rosa in kindergarten in 2007, she was shocked to learn that the state attached the label mentally retarded to the paperwork for the incoming student. "I considered this term an insult," Mrs. Marcellino said.
In fact, many in the disability community consider the term "retarded" to be an outmoded label for people with a variety of intellectual disabilities - not just those affected with Down Syndrome.
Christine Marchand, executive director of the Maryland Arc, explained that the change in terminology has been ongoing in the disability community over the course of several decades.
"In the 1980s, families and people with developmental disabilities marched forward at The Arc's national convention to have the name changed," Ms. Marchand said. The Arc was previously known as the Association for Retarded Citizens. "Even the A-R-C as an acronym was dismissed because of the 'R'," she added.
Mrs. Marcellino's encounter with the school system not only upset her but also motivated her to take action. She started making phone calls to anyone who would listen. She called the PTA; The Arc of Anne Arundel County; Maryland Arc.
Eventually, she contacted Del. Ted Sophocleus, D-Linthicum, who drafted a bill to have that designation changed in state health and education paperwork. That bill, HB-20, was pre-filed in November 2008, and got its first committee hearing in the new session of the General Assembly on Tuesday.
Mrs. Marcellino helped to identify witnesses to testify. One of the first on the panel was Nick Marcellino, Rosa's 13-year-old brother. He came representing not only himself, but also his sisters Gigi and Maddie.
He gave moving testimony from a sibling's perspective. "On any given day at school, at the mall, on a sports field or in the movies, me and my sisters hear, 'that's so retarded,' or 'you're such a retard,' " Nick said. Throughout his testimony, he talked about how it felt to have kids say those words. "We're not allowed to use that word, so when my mom told me that my sister's school was using the words 'Mentally Retarded' to describe Rosa, I couldn't understand that," he said.
He wrapped up by saying, "some say we shouldn't worry about the words, just the way we treat people, but when you think about it, what you call people is how you treat them."
Nick's testimony was followed by some VIPs in the disability and education communities, among them: the executive director of Maryland Arc, a representative from school principals, a representative from the school psychologists' association. In all over 20 people spoke to the importance of changing this law, and even more delivered written testimony supporting the change.
But not one person testified that the label should remain.
"The bill will pass, there is no opposition. The bill will pass and become law," said Del. Bob Costa, R-Deale, who represents Mrs. Marcellino's district, adding that he wanted to make a motion during the hearing to pass it in committee, but that the staff attorney wanted to make sure that there wouldn't be any conflicts with federal law.
"It's a great bill and Rosa's brother was a deciding factor. He presented himself well and his leadership convinced everybody that this was a great bill," Mr. Costa said yesterday.
The next step for the bill will be to move from committee to the floor of the House, then for the Senate to adopt similar legislation. Hopefully at the end of the 90-day session, a conference bill will be approved, reconciling any differences between the two chambers. Then it will be up to the governor to sign it into law. As the bill is written, it would take effect Oct. 1 of this year.
Published January 29, 2009
The first step in getting a bill turned into law in the Maryland General Assembly is to have it heard in committee.
On Tuesday, with a gentle snow falling outside the House Health and Government Operations Committee meeting room, HB-20, also known as "Rosa's Law," got its first hearing. The law would mandate that the current terminology, "mentally retarded," be changed to "intellectually disabled" on state health and education paperwork.
Rosa Marcellino, 7, of Edgewater is the Rosa of Rosa's Law. She was born with Down syndrome. When her mother Nina Marcellino went to Central Elementary School to enroll Rosa in kindergarten in 2007, she was shocked to learn that the state attached the label mentally retarded to the paperwork for the incoming student. "I considered this term an insult," Mrs. Marcellino said.
In fact, many in the disability community consider the term "retarded" to be an outmoded label for people with a variety of intellectual disabilities - not just those affected with Down Syndrome.
Christine Marchand, executive director of the Maryland Arc, explained that the change in terminology has been ongoing in the disability community over the course of several decades.
"In the 1980s, families and people with developmental disabilities marched forward at The Arc's national convention to have the name changed," Ms. Marchand said. The Arc was previously known as the Association for Retarded Citizens. "Even the A-R-C as an acronym was dismissed because of the 'R'," she added.
Mrs. Marcellino's encounter with the school system not only upset her but also motivated her to take action. She started making phone calls to anyone who would listen. She called the PTA; The Arc of Anne Arundel County; Maryland Arc.
Eventually, she contacted Del. Ted Sophocleus, D-Linthicum, who drafted a bill to have that designation changed in state health and education paperwork. That bill, HB-20, was pre-filed in November 2008, and got its first committee hearing in the new session of the General Assembly on Tuesday.
Mrs. Marcellino helped to identify witnesses to testify. One of the first on the panel was Nick Marcellino, Rosa's 13-year-old brother. He came representing not only himself, but also his sisters Gigi and Maddie.
He gave moving testimony from a sibling's perspective. "On any given day at school, at the mall, on a sports field or in the movies, me and my sisters hear, 'that's so retarded,' or 'you're such a retard,' " Nick said. Throughout his testimony, he talked about how it felt to have kids say those words. "We're not allowed to use that word, so when my mom told me that my sister's school was using the words 'Mentally Retarded' to describe Rosa, I couldn't understand that," he said.
He wrapped up by saying, "some say we shouldn't worry about the words, just the way we treat people, but when you think about it, what you call people is how you treat them."
Nick's testimony was followed by some VIPs in the disability and education communities, among them: the executive director of Maryland Arc, a representative from school principals, a representative from the school psychologists' association. In all over 20 people spoke to the importance of changing this law, and even more delivered written testimony supporting the change.
But not one person testified that the label should remain.
"The bill will pass, there is no opposition. The bill will pass and become law," said Del. Bob Costa, R-Deale, who represents Mrs. Marcellino's district, adding that he wanted to make a motion during the hearing to pass it in committee, but that the staff attorney wanted to make sure that there wouldn't be any conflicts with federal law.
"It's a great bill and Rosa's brother was a deciding factor. He presented himself well and his leadership convinced everybody that this was a great bill," Mr. Costa said yesterday.
The next step for the bill will be to move from committee to the floor of the House, then for the Senate to adopt similar legislation. Hopefully at the end of the 90-day session, a conference bill will be approved, reconciling any differences between the two chambers. Then it will be up to the governor to sign it into law. As the bill is written, it would take effect Oct. 1 of this year.
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
"It's just something I do."
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| Amanda Gump and Dianna |
Dianna's sister happens to have a disability. Ever since she can remember, Dianna recalls being involved in Jackie's activities at Fairway-Waycraft in Crawford County, Ohio. The program is a county board of developmental disabilities like Wood Lane. There were dances, and benefits, and community activities. Friendships were made.
After coming to BGSU, she knew she needed to get involved in a program like Fairway-Waycraft. As fate would have it, she met athletes and coaches from our Special Olympics program one day as she was working out at the University track. One of her professors gave her our Coordinator's name and well. . . the rest is history. Since then, Dianna has almost completed a two year stint as an AmeriCorps member at Wood Lane. Her knowledge, passion, and creativity touches the lives of many who receive services from Wood Lane. "I enjoy going on trips. I like bowling. And, I love going to the State Summer Games," she commented.
Dianna is a very talented photographer. She completed her undergraduate degree in two-dimensional studies with a concentration in photography. Individuals served have had the opportunity to "learn from a pro" and participate in very unique projects. One of the classes was entitled "Energy and Photography." Great photos were taken. The class also produced a "quotable quote" which I just have to share!
Dianna said that the group was given a tour of the (Wood County) landfill. They had the opportunity to climb up one of the hills at the landfill. When they got to the top, the guide stated that they were standing on top of a huge pile of garbage. One of the class members, Shane commented, "This must be Michigan because it stinks up here." (sorry you Wolverine fans!)
Dianna is now a sports technician for our Special Olympics program. When I asked her what touched her most about her work with individuals with disabilities, Dianna said, "it's seeing everyone doing their best, outdoing their expectations and knowing that they can do more than they think they can."
Wow-here's a young woman whose true gift is what she just "does." And her comment about "it's just something I (do)"? We know that she's doing so much more than she knows! Thanks, Dianna!
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Crayons, SillyBandz, and bags - the perfect conversation starters!
It's fair time and Wood Lane has an exhibit. We have new four-color banners and the photos of individuals who receive services are eye catchers as people pass by.
But, crayons, SillyBandz and bags? We always rack our brains to find ways to get people to stop at our display. If I know someone, it's easy to strike up a conversation. It's not that I don't know many people (well maybe I don't) but there sure are allot of unfamiliar faces at fair time.
Yesterday, I worked our booth and had a great time with Dave who is a fellow staff member. In two hours, I can't tell you how many people stopped by. Kids picked up crayons and coloring sheets that showed kids with and without disabilities playing. (We used the "Just Like You" theme). And then there were those kids and teenagers who were just ecstatic about searching through a pile SillyBandz. It was amazing to see how excited they were about collecting what I see as pretty rubber bands (there are some pretty cool shapes though). And then there were the adults - they smiled as they left our booth with a packet of seeds for next spring (they were "Forget Me Nots" and had the Wood Lane and Arc logo on the packet.) Rounding out our conversation starters collective were cloth tote bags compliments of the Family and Children First Council in Wood County.
The results were refreshing. People stayed for a minute or two. Some shared that they had a neighbor, relative, or co-worker with a disability. One mom talked to her son about Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and the importance of expectant moms not drinking. Some wanted volunteer information. And some. . .well they just wanted the giveaways. That's OK too.
It was a joy to have the opportunity to talk about the program I love, the individuals we serve and their families.
And to think that crayons were only for colorings, SillyBandz were just for collecting and a bag's only purpose was to carry "stuff." -------Yesterday, they were key to creating community connections at the fair.
But, crayons, SillyBandz and bags? We always rack our brains to find ways to get people to stop at our display. If I know someone, it's easy to strike up a conversation. It's not that I don't know many people (well maybe I don't) but there sure are allot of unfamiliar faces at fair time.
Yesterday, I worked our booth and had a great time with Dave who is a fellow staff member. In two hours, I can't tell you how many people stopped by. Kids picked up crayons and coloring sheets that showed kids with and without disabilities playing. (We used the "Just Like You" theme). And then there were those kids and teenagers who were just ecstatic about searching through a pile SillyBandz. It was amazing to see how excited they were about collecting what I see as pretty rubber bands (there are some pretty cool shapes though). And then there were the adults - they smiled as they left our booth with a packet of seeds for next spring (they were "Forget Me Nots" and had the Wood Lane and Arc logo on the packet.) Rounding out our conversation starters collective were cloth tote bags compliments of the Family and Children First Council in Wood County.
The results were refreshing. People stayed for a minute or two. Some shared that they had a neighbor, relative, or co-worker with a disability. One mom talked to her son about Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and the importance of expectant moms not drinking. Some wanted volunteer information. And some. . .well they just wanted the giveaways. That's OK too.
It was a joy to have the opportunity to talk about the program I love, the individuals we serve and their families.
And to think that crayons were only for colorings, SillyBandz were just for collecting and a bag's only purpose was to carry "stuff." -------Yesterday, they were key to creating community connections at the fair.
Thursday, June 17, 2010
There's No Place Like Home
Confusing? Let me try to explain. After reading Dr. Klein's essay and talking with his daughters, I knew that he was determined to live a rich and full life despite the fact that he had a disability. Indeed, he was a remarkable man.
He passed away last year. After his death, his daughters contacted Wood Lane Residential Services, Inc.* about their father's wish that his home become a home for others who happen to have a disability.
The link to his essay on "This I Believe" is http://thisibelieve.org/essay/11159.
After reading his essay and seeing the photos, I think you'll gain a glimpse of his courage and vision that will ensure that others will also realize that "There's No Place Like Home." Thank you, Dr. Klein. . .
*Wood Lane Residential Services, Inc. provides community-living options and supports for individuals with a developmental disability.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
What's Really Important?
Last week I attended two graduation/recognition celebrations. One was for my son and the other for our students graduating from Wood Lane School.
Success! Smiles! Pride!
I felt proud for my teenage son who is moving on to high school. I was honored to witness the graduation celebration for our students at Wood Lane School. I think that when we participate in such a milestone, we reflect on what was really important in the venture. As parents, teachers, family, and friends, we were partners that helped mentor and guide these individuals to new opportunities.
Today, more thoughts crossed my mind. I haven't always embraced what it important. I sometimes felt too busy. I didn't have time for what I thought was nonsense. I couldn't understand what was so hard about getting the homework done (although I admit that there were moments when I couldn't figure it out either!)
But it's important that I am a good teacher, mentor, and "cheerleader." I may be the person who makes the difference in someone else's life.
Congratulations to all graduates! And, thanks to everyone who took the time to make the world a better place - one kid at a time.
One Hundred Years From Now
Author: (excerpt from "Within My Power" by Forest Witcraft)
One hundred years from now
It won't matter
What kind of car I drove
What kind of house I lived in
How much money I had in the bank
Nor what my cloths looked like
BUT
The world may be a little better
Because, I was important
In the life of a child.
It won't matter
What kind of car I drove
What kind of house I lived in
How much money I had in the bank
Nor what my cloths looked like
BUT
The world may be a little better
Because, I was important
In the life of a child.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
What Would You Do?
Last week, ABC aired a segment (What Would You Do?) that showed how people reacted to a customer making very derogatory remarks about a store employee who happened to have a disability. I was appalled. It was also a reminder to me that even in a time where we think we have made so much progress with embracing diversity - there will always be the need to speak up when injustices occur. And that might be uncomfortable -
very uncomfortable.
Our voices and our actions will always be needed -
http://abcnews.go.com/WhatWouldYouDo/syndrome-grocery-clerk-scenario/story?id=10648284
very uncomfortable.
Our voices and our actions will always be needed -
http://abcnews.go.com/WhatWouldYouDo/syndrome-grocery-clerk-scenario/story?id=10648284
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Finding my voice...
While I certainly don't know everything about having a child with a disability, our family has been challenged. Our daughter benefitted from receiving early intervention services in Henry County and one of our sons had cornea transplants as an infant. So, I do know a thing or two from a first-hand experience.
As a social worker and teacher of students with special needs, one might think that my husband and I were better equipped to make it through the maze of medical professionals, clinics, insurance paperwork, and multiplicity of appointments! Well certainly not initially. We were a typical family! Confused, scared, tired, frustrated, disillusioned, angry, protective and deeply in love with our children.
You must know that as a young professional, I was naively confident that I demonstrated compassion and empathy for the families I served. Oh my! There is nothing like experience to give one a healthy dose of humility!
I felt patronized and de-personalized every time that I was called "mom" by people I had barely met. Why couldn't these perfect strangers call me by my name?
I grew impatient with having to tell our story repeatedly to one person after another who entered the exam room. Why couldn't they talk to one another or read the chart? Heaven knows that we filled out a million pieces of paper and wrote down our parental concerns dozens of times!
Why did everyone speak Latin until they realized that we knew what they were talking about even when using their medical jargon? Those were the only times that our professional backgrounds came in handy by the way.
Why did we always have to hurry up and then always have to wait?
Why were my children referred to by their diagnosis? As he was pointing to my four week-old baby boy, one specialist actually said this, "Well, what we have here is a genetic defect." Yes. He actually said that. I cried. And I found my voice.
Even though these were some of my toughest moments as a parent, they provided me with the greatest lessons for me as a professional. Far greater than those learned in the classroom. I learned that I wasn't as compassionate and empathic as I had thought.
Have you learned your greatest lesson? Have you found your voice?
As a social worker and teacher of students with special needs, one might think that my husband and I were better equipped to make it through the maze of medical professionals, clinics, insurance paperwork, and multiplicity of appointments! Well certainly not initially. We were a typical family! Confused, scared, tired, frustrated, disillusioned, angry, protective and deeply in love with our children.
You must know that as a young professional, I was naively confident that I demonstrated compassion and empathy for the families I served. Oh my! There is nothing like experience to give one a healthy dose of humility!
I felt patronized and de-personalized every time that I was called "mom" by people I had barely met. Why couldn't these perfect strangers call me by my name?
I grew impatient with having to tell our story repeatedly to one person after another who entered the exam room. Why couldn't they talk to one another or read the chart? Heaven knows that we filled out a million pieces of paper and wrote down our parental concerns dozens of times!
Why did everyone speak Latin until they realized that we knew what they were talking about even when using their medical jargon? Those were the only times that our professional backgrounds came in handy by the way.
Why did we always have to hurry up and then always have to wait?
Why were my children referred to by their diagnosis? As he was pointing to my four week-old baby boy, one specialist actually said this, "Well, what we have here is a genetic defect." Yes. He actually said that. I cried. And I found my voice.
Even though these were some of my toughest moments as a parent, they provided me with the greatest lessons for me as a professional. Far greater than those learned in the classroom. I learned that I wasn't as compassionate and empathic as I had thought.
Have you learned your greatest lesson? Have you found your voice?
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
It's Your Voice
Life would be so simple if we used our voices to tell one another what we need or what we want. But somewhere along the way in this journey of life, we become inhibited. We lose confidence. We come to believe others may know better. The reasons for why we stop using our voice are varied and based upon each of our unique experiences.
At Wood Lane, maybe those individuals we serve and their families don't use their voices as often as needed or to the extent necessary to get our attention. Maybe we're not paying close enough attention. Then again, maybe they aren't sure of the right words to use to communicate effectively. In the worst case, maybe we haven't even asked.
So here is the most important series of questions that Wood Lane can ask of the individuals we serve and their families. These questions are not much different that if you were planning a road trip and getting a map from one of the internet search engines or AAA or using your GPS.
Where are you now? Where do you want to be? How do you want to get there? How long do you think it will take? Do you have everything you will need to get there? Now that you are on your way, is there some place else you'd like to go? Is there a stop you'd like to make? How will you know when you are where you want to be? Are you making any progress? Now that you are where you wanted to be, are you happy? Where do you want to go now?
If we haven't asked questions like those above, who will tell us? If you are a staff person reading this, think about it and wonder to yourself whether or not you are asking the right questions and listening to the voices of those we serve. And if you are a person served or family member, are you using your voice? ~ Melanie
At Wood Lane, maybe those individuals we serve and their families don't use their voices as often as needed or to the extent necessary to get our attention. Maybe we're not paying close enough attention. Then again, maybe they aren't sure of the right words to use to communicate effectively. In the worst case, maybe we haven't even asked.
So here is the most important series of questions that Wood Lane can ask of the individuals we serve and their families. These questions are not much different that if you were planning a road trip and getting a map from one of the internet search engines or AAA or using your GPS.
Where are you now? Where do you want to be? How do you want to get there? How long do you think it will take? Do you have everything you will need to get there? Now that you are on your way, is there some place else you'd like to go? Is there a stop you'd like to make? How will you know when you are where you want to be? Are you making any progress? Now that you are where you wanted to be, are you happy? Where do you want to go now?
If we haven't asked questions like those above, who will tell us? If you are a staff person reading this, think about it and wonder to yourself whether or not you are asking the right questions and listening to the voices of those we serve. And if you are a person served or family member, are you using your voice? ~ Melanie
School's Fun Day
Spring Fun Day Brings Lots of Smiles!
Students were treated to a day of fun at the annual field day. Students through the Wood County Educational Service Center joined us. We thank Mindy Barnhart and the WCESC for their work to sponsor this day! View more photos on our web site at www.woodlane.us
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Kiwanis Donation Supports Early Intervention
The Kiwanis Club of Bowling Green members were thanked on Thursday for their support of Wood Lane School's early intervention program. Thanks to the Club's support, children enrolled will have additional equipment to help them progress with their development. The donation included a sensory table and tactile books. Wood Lane's Early Intervention Coordinator, Joanne Hayward and Early Intervention specialist Rhoda Bennett presented the club with a "thank you" card created by children in early intervention. In addition, they presented information about early intervention services. They emphasized the importance of working with children with developmental concerns at an early age (birth - 2) and also enhancing family's knowledge and abilities to provide developmentally rich experiences in every day activities. Hayward and Bennett also gave members hands on activities during the presentation to give a real life understanding of activities that are utilized with children. The "Floam" was a big hit!!
Monday, May 3, 2010
Acting Ability Gets Notice!
Kevin Rathburn was featured on the Sentinel's front page today. His perseverance to secure an acting coach and to connect with media makes him a star! Great job, Kevin! -Liz
http://sent-trib.com/trib/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=14218:acting-ability&catid=1:fp&Itemid=115
http://sent-trib.com/trib/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=14218:acting-ability&catid=1:fp&Itemid=115
We Appreciate You!
This is the first week of May and so it is always nice to have the occasion to officially recognize and demonstrate our appreciation for Teachers and School Bus Drivers! In fact, all of the staff members of Wood Lane are shining stars! The success of our organization is based largely on the incredible relationships with persons served, family members, board members and staff members as we partner in planning for and providing quality services. Whatever your contribution, know that you are appreciated! ~ Melanie
Friday, April 30, 2010
Staff Go The Extra Mile!
Krause and O'Brien ran in the 1/2 marathon portion of the race. I have to say, it's something to be able to smile after such a long race! Awesome job Marla and Lindsey!
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Spread the Word
Admittedly, my technological skills are lacking and I truly have no idea how this whole blog thing works! But I also don't know why a fax works or how big planes (little ones too) get off of the ground and stay in the air. But I no longer question why or how. I just use them.
And so it begins. Another way to communicate about the great things happening at Wood Lane! Spread the word by any means available to you! Tell people that we are here. Just don't ask me how to find the blog because I happened to find the electronic invitation again. My promise? To learn how to use a blog and to share our story - often!
In the meantime, call Liz. Send her to find me...I may not be able to get out of here on my own. ~ Melanie
And so it begins. Another way to communicate about the great things happening at Wood Lane! Spread the word by any means available to you! Tell people that we are here. Just don't ask me how to find the blog because I happened to find the electronic invitation again. My promise? To learn how to use a blog and to share our story - often!
In the meantime, call Liz. Send her to find me...I may not be able to get out of here on my own. ~ Melanie
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
In the News-
Our rock climbing program made the news in the Blade! Here's a link to the article. http://www.toledoblade.com/article/20100428/NEWS16/4280323/-1/NEWS16
You can also link the story from our web site at http://www.woodlane.us/. Additional photos taken by us are in our photo gallery on our site.
You can also link the story from our web site at http://www.woodlane.us/. Additional photos taken by us are in our photo gallery on our site.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
A personal visit to witness a significant feat!
I have to say that I am humbled once again at the abilities of our athletes. To see the skill and determination brings chills. It's evident that our athletes enjoy this challenge. Kudos to Melissa, Stephen, and Chris!
More photos are on our web site at www.woodlane.us. Click on "photo gallery" to see! For more information on this program, contact Special Olympics Coordinator Mary Sehmann.
Friday, April 23, 2010
Friday's Stroll in the Park
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Special Olympics Athletes Rock!
Athletes are participating in a trial five-week adapted rock climbing course. According to Mary Sehmann who sent this cell phone photo, the athletes are having a great time and great success with this new challenge!
Monday, April 19, 2010
Special Needs Estate Planning is Necessary-Seminar Scheduled for Families
It is a very sensitive topic but one that all families face. Planning for the future for your loved one with a disability is difficult but necessary.
On Wednesday, May 5, the Wood Lane Foundation will be hosting a Special Needs Estate Planning Seminar at Wood Lane Industries. Our speaker is Nic Thakur. He is a special needs estate planning attorney. Mr. Thakur will address the need for futures planning, trusts that are available that will help protect family assets and future government benefits.
We will meet at Wood Lane Industries from 6 pm - 7:30 pm. Light refreshments will be served. There is no charge for the seminar. Please let me know if you can attend by calling me at 419 352-5115 or lsheets@woodlane.us. We hope you can attend! Liz Sheets
On Wednesday, May 5, the Wood Lane Foundation will be hosting a Special Needs Estate Planning Seminar at Wood Lane Industries. Our speaker is Nic Thakur. He is a special needs estate planning attorney. Mr. Thakur will address the need for futures planning, trusts that are available that will help protect family assets and future government benefits.
We will meet at Wood Lane Industries from 6 pm - 7:30 pm. Light refreshments will be served. There is no charge for the seminar. Please let me know if you can attend by calling me at 419 352-5115 or lsheets@woodlane.us. We hope you can attend! Liz Sheets
Friday, April 16, 2010
Volunteers. . . Thank you!
We are so thankful for the over 1,200 volunteers who have provided an extensive array of time and energy to our program and individuals we serve. All of our Board members for the Wood County Board of DD are volunteers and give us the needed vision to provide nothing but the best for children, youth, and adults we serve. In addition, volunteers can be seen everywhere in our program - school, industries, community involvement, recreation, Special Olympics . . .there just are too many positions to describe.
To our volunteers. . . Thank you - we couldn't do it without YOU!
To our volunteers. . . Thank you - we couldn't do it without YOU!
Exercise Your Right to Vote!
The Ohio Secretary of State's office has posted an "Ohio Issues Report" for the May primary. Links below will direct you to those reports that include local and state issues for the May 4 primary.
We do not endorse any candidate or issue. This information is being provided to give you a complete picture of issues and ballot language.
If you have questions or need clarification on issues or candidates, contact the Board of Elections at http://www.co.wood.oh.us/BOE/ or by phone (419.354.9120 if in Wood County.) Other BOE office contacts are also on the Secretary of State's web site.
Listing of ballot issues and offices up for election:
Local issues summary:
Information for voters with disabilities (audio included on the site.)
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Wood Lane Team Ready to Speak Up and Speak Out!
We're excited about the opportunity to share our story through the Wood Lane Speaker's Bureau. Individuals who receive services, family members, volunteers, and staff are available to speak to your group or on specific topics/projects. Check out our web site at www.woodlane.us to see the spectrum of services we offer.
We welcome your invitation to speak to your group!
We welcome your invitation to speak to your group!
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